I keep having to answer that question this week as I leave the holiday of Thanksgiving which had all my family home to celebrate. Yesterday, the daughter who lives farthest away had to head back and my heart was incredibly sad again. I was so grateful she and her husband were able to come home for Thanksgiving and join the rest of my family all together in what seemed like a very quick time together. But it was time together and that's the part I NEED to remember to be grateful for!
My other daughter has a one year old who has a schedule to follow and early bedtime which makes it hard sometimes to get together also. Yet when we were together as a family to celebrate her First Birthday on Thanksgiving night and it was fantastic!
I give in too much to self pity at times like this; when I should be thanking God that we got some time together and stop complaining to Him that it wasn't enough time. The time we all had to together was fun, non stop laughing and loving togetherness. What was the old adage, "It's not quantity but quality?" That is what it was and it was a beautiful thing.
We know we cannot get together at Christmas this year and that sent my heart plunging into depression again when suddenly the Holy Spirit sent me an idea. Since we cannot all get together at Christmas, why not do a virtual Christmas? People do this all the time with family in the military or living far away? We can do that too? So we are all going to decorate our homes for Christmas then take pictures and we'll have a virtual Christmas tour of each other's homes and decorations! That is a wonderful reason to get into the season!
So, really all I had to do was stop and remember. And each time I begin to pity party, remember to be grateful...it really isn't that hard to remember.
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Wednesday, November 14, 2018
Gratitude Attitude
Fr. Victor had a very wonderful homily this morning when
he pointed out that the ten lepers who were cured by Jesus must have had an
attitude not of gratitude. It was kind
of like they just expected Jesus to cure them and that was why they didn’t go
back and thank you except for the one.
When we have an attitude of expectation of something,
feeling like we are owed things in life whether it’s easy living, favors or
good health, we miss out on seeing the wonders that God has done for us. We
have missed that ‘wonder and awe’ moment we are given.
We don’t always do it out of selfishness. Most of the time we are just cruising through
our life, expecting to breath, expecting clean water to come out of the faucet.
But it’s like when the electricity goes out in our house and we enter a room,
knowing the electricity has gone out and we still switch the light switch
on. Nothing happens…and we suddenly
remember, oh right the electricity has gone out.
I’m not saying that having an attitude of gratitude means
every time you turn on a light and it works you have to be grateful, but what
about thanking God first thing in the morning and last thing at night for the
fact that you woke up and were alive all day.
Having an attitude of gratitude means thanking God frequently for what
we have and to not expect everything in life to work perfect all the time.
I am the world’s worse at doing this last one. I get spoiled very easily by cars running,
having my health, my family being happy and when one of those things don’t
work, I get off track quickly.
Unlike the one leper who realized he was cured, and was
grateful for it, I tend to stomp and fuss and remind God of all the things I do
right in my life; why doesn’t that count when I want him to help in something
that hasn’t gone right? How every
spoiled I have become by my loving God!
He does spoil me and sometimes I don’t deserve it!
I wish I could remember the one leper who quickly turned
around and ran back to Jesus thanking him profusely for the gift of clear
skin. I just take for granted that I can
breath today, get up and take a shower with clean water, having a wonderful
loving kind husband and children who love me.
But to be painfully honest, most days I don’t remember to say thank you
for those gifts he has given me and spoiled me with.
I am scared to think of the time I have wasted
complaining to our Lord about my many ‘troubles’ and never once said thank you
for all the gifts I have taken for granted.
So here and now, I say thank you Lord. Thank you for
everything in my life. All the
beautiful, loving things you give me and for all the things I see as trials too
because I know you are trying to teach me to be grateful like that one lone
leper. I want so badly to be that one
lone leper who turns and says thank you, who realizes he was so very blessed!
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